Co-workers and managers are often among the first to spot the signs of an employee who may be affected by domestic violence. Violence between spouses or partners can easily spill over into the workplace. It is important to be aware of the signs of domestic violence and how you can help. 

Possible signs of domestic violence include:

• Changes in behavior or work performance
• Preoccupation/lack of concentration
• Increasing or unexplained absences
• Harassing phone calls to the workplace from the employee’s spouse or partner
• Unexplained bruises or other injuries or explanations for injuries that don’t seem legitimate

If you observe these or other possible signs, you may want to talk with the employee about what you have observed, express your concern and let him/her know that an Employee Assistance Program (EAP) is available for confidential assistance. An individual’s job can have true healing value. Victimization often separates people from their friends and family, and robs them of their self-confidence. Having a chance to succeed, contribute, and be part of a team can be a real lifeline for the employee dealing with domestic violence.

If the employee discloses a problem with domestic violence to you, be certain to immediately refer them to EAP or another qualified professional so they receive advice and assistance from people with solid experience in the field. 

Fear and embarrassment often make it difficult for victims to seek help. Before a specific incident surfaces, it is important to let employees know that confidential help is available, and that victims will be treated with respect and concern. If you are a manager or supervisor, work with your EAP to ensure that educational materials about domestic violence are readily available, and that employees know how to access EAP services. Many companies have workplace violence policies that also address domestic violence. Know what your company’s policies and procedures are.

Your program is here to help you along the journey of life. No situation is too big or too small. When you and your household members need assistance, reach out anytime and we will help get you on the right path to meet your needs.

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